a/b) Well, we're still dead for eternity, which kind of outweighs the 82-87 years. But that doesn't matter, I was simply trying to point out the ridiculousness of your statement that living means you are pro-life, since 'pro-life' has been corrupted to mean something completely different. Obviously you missed the satire.c) Do you think that people who break their leg shouldn't have a cast because they need to 'own up' to trying to do a wicked kick-flip? Our entire society is about fixing mistakes and trying to be better, not simply saying "well, I screwed up, too bad". And what about people who had sex, but were safe, took every precaution and got pregnant anyway? What lesson are they supposed to learn there? And you really think any child will grow up in a good home when, you even admit, they will be looked at as a 'consequence', rather than something wanted and loved? Possible, but unlikely.